So last Sunday we had a day of it in our house! Dad had 2 fall and wet himself twice so on Monday I called the doc out to see if anything, other than the alzheimers, was wrong. She said he had a chest infection and gave us some antibiotics. Dad has wet himself everyday since, and has now finished the antibiotics he continues to wet himself. He hasn't had any accidents like this before but I understand him being ill could have brought it on. My main worry is that he still continues to wet himself now. I always said from the start that it was time to consider care homes when it comes to toilet trouble, as a girl of 24 I personally don't want to deal with it, and my dad doesn't want me to deal with it either, it's embarrasing for him. He also refuses baths, showers and any kind of wash, which makes him smell. I'm starting to think it may be time. I feel awful, even considering it though and go through phases of thinking that I can't possibly do it. But caring for dad aswell as having 2 jobs is killing me, I'm always worried and anxious and I'm starting to think it may be the best thing.