My wife, who is just 52 years old, has become very confused about dressing and undressing over the past few months. She often takes off and puts on the same item of clothing several times over, particularly when getting ready for bed. She also gets sequences wrong (e.g. she tries to put tights on without taking off her pyjama trousers first) and sometimes tries to put several of the same item on, such as two skirts, or a skirt and a dress, or three cardigans (which I let her do, just assisting her with getting the sleeves unbundled).
Should I just leave her to find her own way? Or should I intervene as soon as I see she is heading in the wrong direction? As a general rule, I intervene only if really necessary for her comfort, or when she seems to be completely stuck, or when we have to meet a timing - I am still working, so this tends to happen most mornings.
Sometimes when I intervene she seems upset and embarrassed and will pretend that there is some logical purpose behind what she is doing.
Please does anyone have any advice on how best to handle the situation? Is there anything I can do to help reinforce the right sequences in her mind? I find this one of the most stressful and depressing aspects of this disease so far.
Should I just leave her to find her own way? Or should I intervene as soon as I see she is heading in the wrong direction? As a general rule, I intervene only if really necessary for her comfort, or when she seems to be completely stuck, or when we have to meet a timing - I am still working, so this tends to happen most mornings.
Sometimes when I intervene she seems upset and embarrassed and will pretend that there is some logical purpose behind what she is doing.
Please does anyone have any advice on how best to handle the situation? Is there anything I can do to help reinforce the right sequences in her mind? I find this one of the most stressful and depressing aspects of this disease so far.