My mum went into nursing home 2 weeks ago & I was advised by the staff not to tell her it's long term, just a few days. Every day I go in my mum says, I can't wait to get home. She asks me when am I going home. I just keep saying, I don't know it's up to the Drs. Then cleverly, she says I haven't seen any Drs.
When she was at home, was staying in bed from midnight the night before, until 4 or 5 in the aftn. Wouldnt co-operate with the home help or myself & kept refusing to get up & then no food or drink. She also had no sense of danger in the house, climbed on step stool to change light bulb & blew fuse. I removed step stool, she then climbed onto arm of armchair to take clock off the wall. She did many other dangerous things too. So I know she's safe in CH & I don't have the huge worry of finding her fallen or electricuted.
Her memory is very bad & gets confused, but since being in the CH with regular meals & not in bed all day, is now a bit more alert. So she asks me even more when is she going home. I know she is in a safe place & well cared for, as your Dad is too. I hope each day gets better for you all. Many of us on here are going through the same situation, all we can do is keep giving each other advice & all knowing we have made the right decision for our mums or dads, or husbands & wives. Hope we can all try & enjoy the few days of Christmas.
When she was at home, was staying in bed from midnight the night before, until 4 or 5 in the aftn. Wouldnt co-operate with the home help or myself & kept refusing to get up & then no food or drink. She also had no sense of danger in the house, climbed on step stool to change light bulb & blew fuse. I removed step stool, she then climbed onto arm of armchair to take clock off the wall. She did many other dangerous things too. So I know she's safe in CH & I don't have the huge worry of finding her fallen or electricuted.
Her memory is very bad & gets confused, but since being in the CH with regular meals & not in bed all day, is now a bit more alert. So she asks me even more when is she going home. I know she is in a safe place & well cared for, as your Dad is too. I hope each day gets better for you all. Many of us on here are going through the same situation, all we can do is keep giving each other advice & all knowing we have made the right decision for our mums or dads, or husbands & wives. Hope we can all try & enjoy the few days of Christmas.