How predictable are your invisibles?? I just knew that after a year of silence Dave's invisible brother would be in touch this weekend. So he leaves a message earlier on this evening wanting to visit in the next couple of days!
Why does he feel it necessary to come once a year at Christmas. Does he not get that it's a busy time of year and making arrangements ahead of time is a good thing to do? It's not like MIL will recognise him or know it's Christmas. The visit is just to make him feel better.
I suggested to Himself (husband) that they visited her on Wednesday at the care home that she goes for day care. Of course he doesn't want to do that. Tomorrow she has a visit from Crossroads and they came last year when the carer was there and they ignored her So I said they can't come tomorrow.
That leaves Tuesday and what a shame I have an appointment for a mammogram and plan to do my food shopping afterwards. So hopefully I won't have to see them for long. Maybe I'll have lunch out too
When Himself said to BIL that he needed to be prepared for MIL realising that she knew them but didn't know how and that she wouldn't remember from one minute to the next BIL is now an expert and had the cheek to tell Himself that we must expect that at this stage in the illness. What the **** does he know about her illness