My Mum lives in a care home. She moved in last July and is doing well.
I was my Mum’s primary carer, but I have a sister who lives nearby who visits my Mum frequently.
Recently I have had a catastrophic collapse in my health. I suffer from ME/Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and have had a relapse that has rendered me almost bedbound. I spend most of my days lying down and resting as this is the only thing I can do. It is horrid.
We need to sell my Mum’s house in order to pay for care home fees. It’s not urgent, however a friend of our family (and daughter of my Mum’s neighbour) has offered to buy the house. However, the house is still as it was when my Mum moved into care, and has all the family’s belongings in it. It will be a huge job to clear it.
We need to clear the house of everything before selling. However, I am just too ill to contribute to this process and am really worried about how it can be done. My sister can do things, but she can’t do everything. There’s a lot of furniture in the house that needs to be sold or disposed of.
The worry about this situation is not going to help my condition, so I feel rather trapped and helpless. If we can sell the house to our neighbour’s daughter it would be great, but I think we need to get started on clearing our house.
I don’t know how on earth we can resolve this when I’m so ill and cannot even visit the house without serious impact on my condition.
Does anyone have any advice on how one might do this house clearing?
Thank you.
I was my Mum’s primary carer, but I have a sister who lives nearby who visits my Mum frequently.
Recently I have had a catastrophic collapse in my health. I suffer from ME/Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and have had a relapse that has rendered me almost bedbound. I spend most of my days lying down and resting as this is the only thing I can do. It is horrid.
We need to sell my Mum’s house in order to pay for care home fees. It’s not urgent, however a friend of our family (and daughter of my Mum’s neighbour) has offered to buy the house. However, the house is still as it was when my Mum moved into care, and has all the family’s belongings in it. It will be a huge job to clear it.
We need to clear the house of everything before selling. However, I am just too ill to contribute to this process and am really worried about how it can be done. My sister can do things, but she can’t do everything. There’s a lot of furniture in the house that needs to be sold or disposed of.
The worry about this situation is not going to help my condition, so I feel rather trapped and helpless. If we can sell the house to our neighbour’s daughter it would be great, but I think we need to get started on clearing our house.
I don’t know how on earth we can resolve this when I’m so ill and cannot even visit the house without serious impact on my condition.
Does anyone have any advice on how one might do this house clearing?
Thank you.