For the last year my Mum has flatly refused to get into the shower She insists this is because she prefers a bath but before we had the bath removed for my dad to have a walk in shower she never got in the bath either. I used to have to dust it from time to time! She has a carer in the morning to help her get washed/showered and dressed but she flatly refuses to let them help and the best the carer can do is getting a clean set of clothes put out on the bed for her, otherwise she wears the same things day in day out. She claims to have a proper wash after the carer leaves but I can't remember the last time we bought a bar of soap and the washbasin is always bone dry by the time I get to her house. The carer or I put whatever she's worn the previous day and her nightie straight into the wash so she can't put it all on again, but I worry about her smelling and having skin problems. Any bright ideas how to get round this?