Mum is in a nursing home but I visit every day and get involved in her personal care. About a week ago she suddenly deteriorated and was complaining of tummy pains so I suggested she might be constipated (she suffered from impaction in Sept but the carers didn't pick it up until I insisted she had a problem). Nurse said she would have bowel movements monitored and treat if necessary, but they said she is OK.
So as strange behaviour, including frequent bedwetting, continued I asked her to be tested for UTI. Was told urine sample was "positive" and being sent for analysis so I thought great, a course of antibiotics and she will improve again. But when I enquired tonight was told that there was no UTI. Don't really understand this - maybe someone can explain, as I assumed the analysis was just to indicate what type of infection? I couldn't ask the nurse for a clear explanation as I was taking Mum to bed and didn't want her to pick up on my distress.
Her dementia is progressing rapidly and I find it hard to believe how much she has changed in last 12 months. But her understanding has really crashed this last week - I am desperate for there to be an explanation other than an irreversible downturn. I think I don't believe that there is no UTI but don't know how to ask for another check without offending the nursing staff.
So as strange behaviour, including frequent bedwetting, continued I asked her to be tested for UTI. Was told urine sample was "positive" and being sent for analysis so I thought great, a course of antibiotics and she will improve again. But when I enquired tonight was told that there was no UTI. Don't really understand this - maybe someone can explain, as I assumed the analysis was just to indicate what type of infection? I couldn't ask the nurse for a clear explanation as I was taking Mum to bed and didn't want her to pick up on my distress.
Her dementia is progressing rapidly and I find it hard to believe how much she has changed in last 12 months. But her understanding has really crashed this last week - I am desperate for there to be an explanation other than an irreversible downturn. I think I don't believe that there is no UTI but don't know how to ask for another check without offending the nursing staff.