Mum was moved to a nursing home a week ago and we found out on friday that she has only taken less than 500ml of fluid in a week. I went in yesterday and managed to get some jelly and a milky bar desert down her. Today I went and tried to give her weetabix and some tea. She seems to be storing food in her mouth. The home have spoken to the on call dr and they advised thickening the liquids as a precaution and will get an emergency SALT assessment tomorrow.
I don't know what to do. We have a DNR in place and have decided she is not to be admitted to hospital for IV fluids.
I feel numb. This is my mum. They are suggesting an MDT meeting tomorrow. Can I tell them she's had enough? Can I ask for her to be put on end of life care? What happens. Does she have some medication. She will not take any fluid off the care staff and is not eating either. She stores the food if they get it in her mouth. How much longer does she have to suffer this horrendous disease? I don't think I can take much more.
I don't know what to do. We have a DNR in place and have decided she is not to be admitted to hospital for IV fluids.
I feel numb. This is my mum. They are suggesting an MDT meeting tomorrow. Can I tell them she's had enough? Can I ask for her to be put on end of life care? What happens. Does she have some medication. She will not take any fluid off the care staff and is not eating either. She stores the food if they get it in her mouth. How much longer does she have to suffer this horrendous disease? I don't think I can take much more.