Hello Kittyann
I would be spitting if I were you. I have done 24/7 caring , you have my sympathy.
Please don't get me wrong, In one way I do understand that carer but you cant live your life online, nor should you be expected to.
Their were times I had to leave my mum and dad for a while, mum was in advanced stages at the time . was virtually bedridden could only walk with support . my dad however was recovering from a nasty head injury he was like a two yr old who could get up to anything, he did not have dementia and thankfully is nearly but not quite back to his old self.
You are fully entitled to time off, by that I mean regularly and just to do what you want to do , rather than rushing around the supermarket at warp speed.
I am in full agreement with everyone above but especially Garnuft and Lindy.
Apologies if you have already done this recently. You are entitled to a carers assessment of your own needs . So please contact social services to arrange one.
I also found these charities very helpful.
If your mum is over think it is 60 , Age UK run a lot of things, know whats available in your area .
If you have Crossroads care in your area, they provide A regular trained carer to sit with a person to give you some free time . I am out of touch with their fees.
http://www.carers.org/what-crossroads-care-scheme
I would be spitting if I were you. I have done 24/7 caring , you have my sympathy.
Please don't get me wrong, In one way I do understand that carer but you cant live your life online, nor should you be expected to.
Their were times I had to leave my mum and dad for a while, mum was in advanced stages at the time . was virtually bedridden could only walk with support . my dad however was recovering from a nasty head injury he was like a two yr old who could get up to anything, he did not have dementia and thankfully is nearly but not quite back to his old self.
You are fully entitled to time off, by that I mean regularly and just to do what you want to do , rather than rushing around the supermarket at warp speed.
I am in full agreement with everyone above but especially Garnuft and Lindy.
Apologies if you have already done this recently. You are entitled to a carers assessment of your own needs . So please contact social services to arrange one.
I also found these charities very helpful.
If your mum is over think it is 60 , Age UK run a lot of things, know whats available in your area .
If you have Crossroads care in your area, they provide A regular trained carer to sit with a person to give you some free time . I am out of touch with their fees.
http://www.carers.org/what-crossroads-care-scheme
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