Hello all,
Decided to bring Mum home for the day today and I'm wondering why I bother.
Neither of us,especially mum , gets anything out of it.
When I got her in, I cooked her a nice lunch which she didn't eat, barely drank any tea.
It's not even as if we can have a non-sensical chat as she just continually makes her indecipherable noises. So you have to persevere to try and get her to understand in order to drink/eat.
She won't /doesn't watch tv, listen to music , read, etc.
You can't really leave her even for a couple of minutes as she'll try and stand and is likely to fall. And of course it's my eldest sons day off, which i wasn't aware of when I brought her home. He works day/ night shifts and has had to listen to this.
I'm getting to the stage where I'm counting the hours I can take her back. Queue another very large dose of guilt.
I suppose it has reinforced the fact that I can't really put the family through this on Christmas Day
And breathe
Decided to bring Mum home for the day today and I'm wondering why I bother.
Neither of us,especially mum , gets anything out of it.
When I got her in, I cooked her a nice lunch which she didn't eat, barely drank any tea.
It's not even as if we can have a non-sensical chat as she just continually makes her indecipherable noises. So you have to persevere to try and get her to understand in order to drink/eat.
She won't /doesn't watch tv, listen to music , read, etc.
You can't really leave her even for a couple of minutes as she'll try and stand and is likely to fall. And of course it's my eldest sons day off, which i wasn't aware of when I brought her home. He works day/ night shifts and has had to listen to this.
I'm getting to the stage where I'm counting the hours I can take her back. Queue another very large dose of guilt.
I suppose it has reinforced the fact that I can't really put the family through this on Christmas Day
And breathe