I gave up my job and looked after my Partner who had Lewy body Dementia till he finally died at home. It was a very difficult process.
I have also just come back from Spain where my long term friend has had Parkinson's and now has Dementia, everything is done to her and she does not have a say in anything although she knows exactly what is going on.
I went on a course when my Partner was ill that advocated not letting Dementia sufferers make choices advocated by the book (Contented Dementia).
I disagree with this and I felt my Partner had more fullfillment in life by making choices till the very end.
Although he sometimes could not find the right words we found other ways of getting him to decide on holidays, what to wear, what to eat etc.
He was also totally involved in all meetings pertaining to him.
I was just wondering what people out there felt as to allowing Dementia sufferers make choices or not
I have also just come back from Spain where my long term friend has had Parkinson's and now has Dementia, everything is done to her and she does not have a say in anything although she knows exactly what is going on.
I went on a course when my Partner was ill that advocated not letting Dementia sufferers make choices advocated by the book (Contented Dementia).
I disagree with this and I felt my Partner had more fullfillment in life by making choices till the very end.
Although he sometimes could not find the right words we found other ways of getting him to decide on holidays, what to wear, what to eat etc.
He was also totally involved in all meetings pertaining to him.
I was just wondering what people out there felt as to allowing Dementia sufferers make choices or not