Verity, Lyn, Scarlet, WIFE, everybody who is so sad, I am sending huge love after catching up with this thread. You all have my absolute support through the ether, as ever. It's all too complicated to explain to those who simply will not see there is something wrong. He looks fine, they tell me. Hope you are both well! What do you b......y think? On and on with the amateur diagnosis and the "helpful" comments, and we are still in the early stages relatively speaking. I have concluded that if I don't speak to people on the phone, they can't say anything I don't want to hear; they can't have a conversation with a dead end. If people write me nonsense, then I ignore it and I remove them from the contacts list. I'm acting like a recluse, but, do you know what, I am feeling rather pleased at how I am protecting my darling man - and myself. To quote my Mother "The more I see of other people, the more I like myself". Oh, and just in case, you lovely cyber friends should think you are off my contacts list, there ARE notable exceptions - who will be with me for ever! X Shelagh
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