I was called out to Dads today by the Carer, he said Dad was not well he was confused and maybe I should call NHS, my Dad in the background was shouting , No I don't want them people, he was very angry so I decided to see how he was when I got there, 10 mile and two busses.
I found Dad to be more confused than normal and upset, his mobility seemed poorer too. He totally refused to let me get the doctor and became very angry. I dropped the matter, for now.
Seemingly Dad said during the night he was in a place he did not know, he started banging on the windows asking for help but no one came, he went looking around and shouting for help, it turned out he had gone into the attic, no mean task the stairs are unsafe. He then must have come down the stairs and looked in the bedrooms, I think then he realised he was in his own home.
Whatever happened was not just a dream or emotional it has had an effect on him physically and emotionally. It upset him greatly.
He is barricading his door and sleeps with a spade and golf club, he also has a crowbar by the side of his chair in the room and a garden hoe close by. He has been paranoid for a while and kept tools nearby but the paranoia seems worse lately.
I have tried in the past to get him into a care home for his safety and well being but SS said he could go home.
To give you a bit of background, Dad is 81, blind, terminal cancer, vas dementia, frontal lobe dementia, Heart problems, chronic ostearthritis, and neutropenic. His house has no running hot water or heating. I had to cap the gas off.
Your thoughts please
Turmoil
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I found Dad to be more confused than normal and upset, his mobility seemed poorer too. He totally refused to let me get the doctor and became very angry. I dropped the matter, for now.
Seemingly Dad said during the night he was in a place he did not know, he started banging on the windows asking for help but no one came, he went looking around and shouting for help, it turned out he had gone into the attic, no mean task the stairs are unsafe. He then must have come down the stairs and looked in the bedrooms, I think then he realised he was in his own home.
Whatever happened was not just a dream or emotional it has had an effect on him physically and emotionally. It upset him greatly.
He is barricading his door and sleeps with a spade and golf club, he also has a crowbar by the side of his chair in the room and a garden hoe close by. He has been paranoid for a while and kept tools nearby but the paranoia seems worse lately.
I have tried in the past to get him into a care home for his safety and well being but SS said he could go home.
To give you a bit of background, Dad is 81, blind, terminal cancer, vas dementia, frontal lobe dementia, Heart problems, chronic ostearthritis, and neutropenic. His house has no running hot water or heating. I had to cap the gas off.
Your thoughts please
Turmoil
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