I have been my husband's sole carer for 5 years since his stroke & dementia - he also has prostate cancer which is now in his bones.
Apart from a couple of weekends when his family had him, I have never done respite care before.
I am going on holiday to Turkey next week with a couple of girlfriends who have 'bullied' me into going - although I must say I am excited & looking forward to it very much.
I have arranged for a live-in carer to be here with my husband as I thought this may be less stressful for him than to be in a care home where he would be in strange surroundings.
My biggest worry is that I will have a taste of 'normal' life & not want to go back to caring - although I love my husband & want the best for him
Any words of wisdom out there, please?? ??
Apart from a couple of weekends when his family had him, I have never done respite care before.
I am going on holiday to Turkey next week with a couple of girlfriends who have 'bullied' me into going - although I must say I am excited & looking forward to it very much.
I have arranged for a live-in carer to be here with my husband as I thought this may be less stressful for him than to be in a care home where he would be in strange surroundings.
My biggest worry is that I will have a taste of 'normal' life & not want to go back to caring - although I love my husband & want the best for him
Any words of wisdom out there, please?? ??
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