Personal care AND dignity
Good afternoon
I have very strong views on the subject, and after both working in care for around 15 years and also caring this year 24/7 for my mum who lived with myself, all i can say is BOTH are important.
In a care home setting, a compromise can be achieved, sometimes a bath or a shower can be extremely upsetting, so that's where a full body wash can be just as good. Get the person involved as much as possible, don't just overtake and 'get on' with the task in hand, make the person feel useful, use it as a bit of a 'pamper' session, same with any problems with nail trimming or hair washing. It CAN be done. If the situation is distressing at the time of trying to bathe etc, stop, and try again later, OR perhaps ask another carer to step in. Distraction and a bit of coaxing, along with a friendly atmosphere works wonders. I've managed to successfully give the most 'stubborn' person good personal care, it's all about attitude and patience. That said, I KNOW carer's are rushed at certain times of the day, but there's nothing stopping someone attempting later on in the day. I've worked in some homes where it's easier NOT to bother. Wrong, wrong, WRONG.
When in your own home, or at the loved ones home, I think it's actually far easier. Although you may not be able to physically get the person into a bath, or a shower ( I couldn't, mum was bed bound ) there's no excuse for poor hygiene. A full body wash will be more than ample. As for hair washing, inflatable sinks are fab, don't cost much ( i paid around £17.00 ) and it can be done on the bed.
Don't be fobbed off by care staff, see their senior or manager, I'm sorry but it CAN be classed as neglect if the person who's being cared for isn't receiving the care they should be. If you can't speak to the staff there, or the manager, you can report it to CCQ and your SS or LA. Skin integrity and self worth for the individual will suffer. Sorry for going on, but, like i said I feel very strongly about the subject.
Take care
Vicky