We have to be everything for them don't we. When helping MIL put her slippers on the other day I was appalled how long her toe nails were. She must notice them but of course can't reach down to do them anymore and forgets to tell me they need cutting, so that's on a regular appointment now.
Smell - MIL doesn't seem to notice when the milk has gone off
She doesn't recognise when food is out of date
She eats cakes & biscuits but none of the frozen ready meals in the freezer
We call her every day to remind her to take her meds
She stacks the washing up beautifully by the washing up bowl but doesn't actually do it.
Local hospice took a Direct Debit mandate from her on the doorstep the other day - I was so cross. Phoned them up and lady said their caller shouldn't have done that as they are trained to recognise people with Dementia - oh yes?? How do you do that then?? My MIL is brilliant at giving the impression she is fine!
MIL went for her regular INR blood test the other day (Warfarin) (volunteers collect her and return her home) & practice nurse gave her a universal bottle to take home and provide a wee specimen. Honestly - she won't remember to do that!! She won't remember where it came from or what it's for. And that's a practice nurse!! Why didn't she take it from her when she was there??
And scratching, she scratches all the time, arms, legs, shoulders, covered in scabs, she scratches constantly. It's not a life or death problem but it's incredibly hard to spend any length of time with someone who is constantly scratching and doesn't realise she is doing it.
So it goes on, and occassionally I have to let off steam. Our plight is nothing compared to most. Have a good weekend everyone
Smell - MIL doesn't seem to notice when the milk has gone off
She doesn't recognise when food is out of date
She eats cakes & biscuits but none of the frozen ready meals in the freezer
We call her every day to remind her to take her meds
She stacks the washing up beautifully by the washing up bowl but doesn't actually do it.
Local hospice took a Direct Debit mandate from her on the doorstep the other day - I was so cross. Phoned them up and lady said their caller shouldn't have done that as they are trained to recognise people with Dementia - oh yes?? How do you do that then?? My MIL is brilliant at giving the impression she is fine!
MIL went for her regular INR blood test the other day (Warfarin) (volunteers collect her and return her home) & practice nurse gave her a universal bottle to take home and provide a wee specimen. Honestly - she won't remember to do that!! She won't remember where it came from or what it's for. And that's a practice nurse!! Why didn't she take it from her when she was there??
And scratching, she scratches all the time, arms, legs, shoulders, covered in scabs, she scratches constantly. It's not a life or death problem but it's incredibly hard to spend any length of time with someone who is constantly scratching and doesn't realise she is doing it.
So it goes on, and occassionally I have to let off steam. Our plight is nothing compared to most. Have a good weekend everyone
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