My husband has become VERY critical & nasty - not only to me but about other people & things also. Even people on the TV whom he doesn't know.
He can only see the bad in things or people & is very quick to share his dreadful ideas.
Everybody is either fat or ugly or common and his racial attitude is truly awful. He keeps telling me that all 'foreigners should be chucked out' so England can become English again.
Tonight I was disgusted when he referred to some non-white people on the TV as *******. (Sorry if this is unacceptable on TP)
He sees nothing wrong in his attitude or words.
I am finding this part of his dementia VERY difficult & upsetting - it started about 4 years now (when he had a stroke which led to dementia) & is getting worse as his dementia progresses.
It is also very depressing to live with someone so negative.
I am worried about taking him out now as he always seems to upset somebody with his comments.
Does anybody have any experience of this sort of attitude & any ideas about how to cope please? I am desperate.
He can only see the bad in things or people & is very quick to share his dreadful ideas.
Everybody is either fat or ugly or common and his racial attitude is truly awful. He keeps telling me that all 'foreigners should be chucked out' so England can become English again.
Tonight I was disgusted when he referred to some non-white people on the TV as *******. (Sorry if this is unacceptable on TP)
He sees nothing wrong in his attitude or words.
I am finding this part of his dementia VERY difficult & upsetting - it started about 4 years now (when he had a stroke which led to dementia) & is getting worse as his dementia progresses.
It is also very depressing to live with someone so negative.
I am worried about taking him out now as he always seems to upset somebody with his comments.
Does anybody have any experience of this sort of attitude & any ideas about how to cope please? I am desperate.
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