I can relate to the numb and empty feeling so clearly - it's as though time stood still. Or perhaps I did. I soon discovered that people were correct in telling me you can't move on til after the funeral but it wasn't quite that simple. xx
I'm certainly not ready to move on yet, even after the funeral. I'll be taking my own advice and allowing myself to drift, for now anyway. I reckon when I start to feel bored will be the time to take myself in hand.
I have some gifts to take to the home. Not sure when. There is no hurry .