Maggie, if i were you I'd make a list as long as you wish, even add to it later. Edit it now and then with #1 and so forth of what you want to do, how you can make it a reality, or if impossible alter it until it is some semblence of the real thing. Even if you have to post pone it give a future date, that you hope to have it worked out. But BE SURE to do something special everyday, little things can mean so much.
For instance, I was bound and determined to vacuum the two floors that have carpeting. My health has been so bad for 2-3 months it just didn't happen. So, I did them, first thing. When I went to bed that night, I looked in mirror and realized that I had never bathed, dressed, or combed my hair all day!
And our oldest grandson and his to-be wife had dropped in late! I had no idea, I behaved like I would have been dressed for the queen! Hope she doesn't break the engagement because of his wierd, dirty grandma! Ha!
Jaffy