I haven't posted in a while, dementia has taken over and we have have quite a time of it. On Monday my mum suffered another TIA, her worst to date and then last night, my dad drank bleach. One ambulance with flashing blue lights and a trip to A&E later, he 's fine and my mum is actually ok. My husband and I, on the other hand, have raw nerves and large bags under our eyes. I feel guitly at times but you really have to laugh, retain a sense of humour and just get on with it.