I just rang up to get the forms for a lasting POA for MIL and am feeling just awful - somehow it seems to make it much more real that she's going to get worse and need loads more help.
I know the above is being a bit silly as I've been well aware that something's going wrong with her for a couple of years now, but we've been bumbling along ok until she went into hospital at the beginning of March when the four of us (2 sons, 2 DILs all living nearby) had to face the reality of her mental state. She's still not too bad, especially since the UTI cleared up, but she has very odd fantasies and her short-term memory is terrible. Still, I guess I somehow thought somewhere deep in my mind that it might all go away until I made that phone call!
I know the above is being a bit silly as I've been well aware that something's going wrong with her for a couple of years now, but we've been bumbling along ok until she went into hospital at the beginning of March when the four of us (2 sons, 2 DILs all living nearby) had to face the reality of her mental state. She's still not too bad, especially since the UTI cleared up, but she has very odd fantasies and her short-term memory is terrible. Still, I guess I somehow thought somewhere deep in my mind that it might all go away until I made that phone call!