Hi all
First time I have posted anything but needed some advice. Dr has just confirmed what I had expected mum has dementia and I just wanted a bit of advice.
Mum seems to be totally confused by time, a few times recently I have spoken to her after work and said I would be down the next day at a certain time, she has then telephoned me at 1am saying where are you I have been waiting all day for you! Also have arrived to take her out and she has been just going to bed. I brought a clock that tells her day of week and if morning/night etc but this doesn't seem to help. When I asked her to check her clock before she rang so that is wasn't night as we all had to get up for work/school she said I must be mistaken she wouldn't ring me in the middle of the night.
The other residents in her sheltered housing have said they have heard her go out at 5 or 6am some mornings. The answer I got for this was I was going to get my pension (post off 5 min away) but when I found the post office shut I came straight home no problem I didn't see anyone.
Sorry to waffle but wonder if anyone can give me any tips on helping her with time issue.
First time I have posted anything but needed some advice. Dr has just confirmed what I had expected mum has dementia and I just wanted a bit of advice.
Mum seems to be totally confused by time, a few times recently I have spoken to her after work and said I would be down the next day at a certain time, she has then telephoned me at 1am saying where are you I have been waiting all day for you! Also have arrived to take her out and she has been just going to bed. I brought a clock that tells her day of week and if morning/night etc but this doesn't seem to help. When I asked her to check her clock before she rang so that is wasn't night as we all had to get up for work/school she said I must be mistaken she wouldn't ring me in the middle of the night.
The other residents in her sheltered housing have said they have heard her go out at 5 or 6am some mornings. The answer I got for this was I was going to get my pension (post off 5 min away) but when I found the post office shut I came straight home no problem I didn't see anyone.
Sorry to waffle but wonder if anyone can give me any tips on helping her with time issue.