Still wading through your replies and reeling a bit from the overwhelming support. There are so many wise words written there I need time to consider everything you have said very carefully.
The fact that I have acknowledged to myself..(and TP) that I no longer want to do this has in itself lightened my load.
I can do the physical side of caring and get great satisfaction from it. The mental aspect I am now struggling with.
There is no way I'm going to make a hasty decision...it's too important for that.
For some reason I've always thought that it would happen to us as it happened to you, Hazel...that something would happen and matters would be taken out of my hands. In that case I wouldn't have to go through the agonies of making a choice.
I'll work it out. Thankyou for helping me through this.
Love xx
The fact that I have acknowledged to myself..(and TP) that I no longer want to do this has in itself lightened my load.
I can do the physical side of caring and get great satisfaction from it. The mental aspect I am now struggling with.
There is no way I'm going to make a hasty decision...it's too important for that.
For some reason I've always thought that it would happen to us as it happened to you, Hazel...that something would happen and matters would be taken out of my hands. In that case I wouldn't have to go through the agonies of making a choice.
I'll work it out. Thankyou for helping me through this.
Love xx