It's my first day at dad's today.He has declined to get up.This is the 5 th day.He has lost more weight and the pillows are beginning to look bigger than him. He is not drinking a lot but I have no idea of overnight output as again it is not written down. He also has been coughing up phlegm. This started last week. He is still having the carers in the am and to do a continence care at about 7pm.He is a lot quieter these days but looks ill now. It will be interesting if he gets up tomorrow.