i had no support either. ss were there to offer activities but he said no and as he had capacity it was his choice. mental health were there for him as well and prescribed memantine. it was good he agreed to take them otherwise there would be nothing. most of the domestic abuse charities couldnt support me as im housebound so couldnt go out for support. my husband even told them what he was doing to me and they suggested mindfulness. he told them he couldnt control it but he was supposed to realise in time what was happening and bring him self under control. the last advice i got was you need to leave the room. in other words, the emphasis is on me avoiding him rather than doing anything positive to change his behaviour. they did say as he was aware, then its his fault. i had to even teach them how different dementias present. hopeless