Hi, this is the first time I write here, hope somebody can give me advice.
My partner of 21 years has Alzheimer and he is getting worse. We don't live together but I am spending most of the time in his house now, as well as working full time. I can see that I will have to move with him sooner than I expected, also I may have to stop working before my retirement age (in two years) since my job is very demanding and I cannot see how will be able to cope with both.
I have been advised that we should get married before is too late, but my partner cannot understand why that is necessary, and now I am not even too sure. Could anybody give me advice on that so I can try to make him understand? what is the advantage of getting married? will that make my life easier when I have to look after him? (we already have a power of attorney but people tell me that we should get marry too).
Any advice please?
Thank you very much
Edurne
My partner of 21 years has Alzheimer and he is getting worse. We don't live together but I am spending most of the time in his house now, as well as working full time. I can see that I will have to move with him sooner than I expected, also I may have to stop working before my retirement age (in two years) since my job is very demanding and I cannot see how will be able to cope with both.
I have been advised that we should get married before is too late, but my partner cannot understand why that is necessary, and now I am not even too sure. Could anybody give me advice on that so I can try to make him understand? what is the advantage of getting married? will that make my life easier when I have to look after him? (we already have a power of attorney but people tell me that we should get marry too).
Any advice please?
Thank you very much
Edurne