i didnt have a great night as what has been said here has been running through my head. im questioning myself , anxious, i feel judged. i like to be caring and supportive to others and helpful in what i have learnt through my own experiences. i didnt feel supported by the poster or valid or understood. i learn from other peoples experiences and different ways they have tried in trying to find a way around difficulties. its a difficult road we are on, please dont make it harder by making me feel unworthy and being put down. it really knocked my confidence and a bit sad. ive not named the poster but hope what i have written is a reminder that we are doing our best to make a bad situation a little bit better for ourselves.