And suddenly it’s over

CardiffGirlInEssex

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Mum died peacefully in a nursing home this afternoon. I am relieved that it is over, the last few months have been awful for her and for me, but I am in pieces.
 

jugglingmum

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Chester
I'm sorry for your loss, as you say a relief it is over.

That doesn't make your loss any easier. As canary say be gentle with yourself.
 

JaxG

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I am so sorry for your loss. It must be such a tangle of mixed emotions, the relief that the suffering is over but you can finally grieve for the person she was. Such a cruel disease.
 

Jale

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So sorry for your loss CardiffGirlInEssex, sending hugs your way
 

CardiffGirlInEssex

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Thank you all for your kindness. My Dad doesn’t know yet, as telephone communication is nearly impossible and I can’t travel till tomorrow. His cousin will go round in the morning to tell him and be with him until I get there. He is going to take it hard I think, even though we have been expecting it, it’s still much more of a shock than I thought it would be, now it’s actually happened.

I have had to phone my mother‘s four siblings this evening, that was hard . They are all upset too, of course, she was their big sister.
 

Mudlark

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So sorry for your loss and feel for your pain. You sound like a wonderful daughter. Be kind to yourself during this emotional time.