Hi all, So today I received an email from the vicar that conducted my dads Funeral Service in February this year it says she is holding a Service of Remembrance to those lost this year and has sent me an invitation. The vicar and I did speak at the time of dads passing and she did say a couple of prayers for me on the telephone as I was so ill. Its not at the church/cemetery where dad is buried along with mum but still very local she says there will be prayers, hymns and each person lost will have their name mentioned also a candle can be lit in their memory. I confess I am not very religious but am so pleased to get the invitation and the opportunity to go as I missed dads funeral because of my hospitalisation with covid 19. I really hope this will help ease some pain in my heart as I have very much struggled because I haven't really forgiven myself for missing dads funeral. I had even thought of contacting her after Christmas to see if there was a chance she could say a prayer at mum and dads grave when the memorial stone gets returned but will be happy to attend the service instead. The email said I was welcome to invite my family and friends so partner will come with me. My daughter has already made plans to visit me in November so won't be attending. I felt I had to forward sister the email to give her the option to attend particularly as dad only had a service at the graveside and not a service in church as my mum did. I do actually dread having to be in the same place as sister because of all the animosity and we haven't spoken in 9 months only email when dads affairs were settled and even then she complained as thought she 'deserved' more of what money dad left but it was divided equally. I hope my sister declines because she did get to go to dads funeral and blatantly invited someone I didn't want there an old neighbour that had been awful to me with sister in my dads home really upsetting dad because of how they behaved towards me. For me will be even worse if she asks this neighbour to attend too although the email does say my friends and family.
I had some good news yesterday in that the doctor in the respiratory clinic has said I can finally come off the blood thinners and that my breathing tests are now normal. I have now been discharged from the clinic so really happy about that. Doctor was unable to bring up the echocardiogram results because of a computer blip but says she will ask the GP to forward a copy of her letter to me which will have the results in.
I had some good news yesterday in that the doctor in the respiratory clinic has said I can finally come off the blood thinners and that my breathing tests are now normal. I have now been discharged from the clinic so really happy about that. Doctor was unable to bring up the echocardiogram results because of a computer blip but says she will ask the GP to forward a copy of her letter to me which will have the results in.