I urgently need some advice please.I will try to keep it brief.I have been caring for my husband who has Alzheimers with dementia now for some seven years and gradually his condition has deteriorated,resulting in my contacting social services for help and they are coming to assess him next week,with a view to him going into respite to give me a break.The reason for this is because he now opens the front/back door and wanders outside if he can't see me,for instance I might be in the shower and he forgets I'm up there and goes outside,resulting in that now I have to remove the keys from the front and back doors.This means I am unable to leave the house for anything at all,haven't been out socially or otherwise since January,I shop online.the question is...Father's Day is coming up(Sunday)and his daughter from a previuos marriage contacted me to ask if she could see her Father,and the reason for that is because early last year she took her Father for a week to give me a break,and after she brought him home she promptly reported me to social services for"bullying and abuse"and consequently she has had no contact with her Father.Social services said there was no evidence at all of any bullying or abuse and no case to answer.In respect of what has happened and she calls to see her Father on Sunday,what do I do if my husband blurts out that social services are due to call? The daughter is likely to scupper my brief chance of respite because she is likely to claim that she would take him given the chance,which she hasn't.....she was supposed to have her Father for seven days last time,and brought him back after five,saying she was worn out!I'm in turmoil as to what is the best way to deal with this.