@lollyc thanks So tricky as haven't seen consultant since November (one phone convo end January and awaiting appointment now) and we are not yet seen by local memory clinic ( referred last July).
Donepezil might be causing the incontinence issue...
Memantine might be making him shaky on his feet...
Basically lower doses of each might be advantageous...
GP wouldn't be worth asking (hasn't seen OH for more than a year, and not at all since diagnosis). But when it is 6 months between face to face appointments, habits get established. But interesting to know it was a side effect for your mum so this helps when I do get to talk to consultant as I won't sound as though I am just floating a vague idea. So thanks. And fingers crossed it doesn't start happening at night. Did your mum take her pill at night or in the morning? OH takes his at night.