Thus is such a difficult time for all of us. Like many my OH's care home has closed to visitors and it is hard. I try not to think that I may never see him alive again but that is possible. He was able to hesr what I was telling him last week, but couldn't believe it, he thought it wouldn't apply to him. I am glad the home has shut although I will miss him. The care staff are doing a brilliant in very difficult circumstances with extensive deep cleaning. They all have families, children, older relatives so they have a additional worry of taking infection in. I am sending in postcards with a few words in every couple of days just to let him know i