so that’s where the magic wand has been
@Palerider ... please go retrieve it ... plenty of people need it
Have a quick wave around for yourself, you deserve it
On the subject of housing ... get yourself on the list. You need to have lived in the area for 4 years, it may go up again, but if you have lived there the required number of years, you can go on the list. As with anything, it’s a points system. The more points you have, the higher up the list you go. However ... just because you are not in the top section, doesn’t mean you can’t get a place. If the people at the top don’t want somewhere (it’s too far from school, shops etc), it can become available to those further down the list.
I know one young couple, both living at home with their respective parents, who wanted to move in together, who were offered a flat after 18 months. Another single girl, who also was offered a flat. You just need to look at the things that get you points and prove you have them ... your GP can help
I understand how infuriating it is, how it just doesn’t seem right, but when you are asking because you are homeless, the council can’t view you are “going to be homeless”, they can only do that on the day you are. Think of it this way ... if you put your mums house on the market & get an offer today, it will take an average of 4 months to completion. You have a place to live for the next 4 months (minimum), but someone else may be on the street tomorrow. If the council give you a flat today, they can’t give that flat to the homeless person tomorrow.
As for “friends”, the real true ones will understand, the rest
phhhhh. I had one who was so excited about me moving back to the area, but then became “busy” as soon as Alzheimer’s was realised, then .... after the funeral made a crass comment about being able to meet up as I’d have time now
I suspect my caustic reply about why I now had time might be the reason she’s not attempted any arrangements
You are not anti social, you are still caring, while attempting to sort your own life out and adjusting. True friends will understand that