I came down with a nasty cold on Sunday - the type where you cannot summon up the energy to do anything.
OH did not notice - but why did I think he would?
Monday and I got up to give him his meds and coffee and crawled back into bed. I made myself get up to make his lunch, did not shower, do my hair, put clean clothes on or makeup on. I felt and looked a mess. Luckily he was playing snooker in the afternoon so I could doze on the sofa.
He did not notice I was not at all well.
BUT he did ask me had I finished setting up his new laptop for him - I said I hadn't. he has bought it with his post code lottery winnings, and only wants to use it to check the lottery results !!!!
This morning I felt slightly better, still no energy, but he wanted 3 games of scrabble.
The thoughts that are drifting around, that I cannot quite get hold of are I think:-
"what would happen if I became seriously ill - would he take any action at all?"
and
" the fact that he still wanted things doing for him, like his laptop, does that give an angle on how limited his comprehension is now?"
OH did not notice - but why did I think he would?
Monday and I got up to give him his meds and coffee and crawled back into bed. I made myself get up to make his lunch, did not shower, do my hair, put clean clothes on or makeup on. I felt and looked a mess. Luckily he was playing snooker in the afternoon so I could doze on the sofa.
He did not notice I was not at all well.
BUT he did ask me had I finished setting up his new laptop for him - I said I hadn't. he has bought it with his post code lottery winnings, and only wants to use it to check the lottery results !!!!
This morning I felt slightly better, still no energy, but he wanted 3 games of scrabble.
The thoughts that are drifting around, that I cannot quite get hold of are I think:-
"what would happen if I became seriously ill - would he take any action at all?"
and
" the fact that he still wanted things doing for him, like his laptop, does that give an angle on how limited his comprehension is now?"