How about contacting memory clinic & explaining your concerns to the consultant ?I know ! But to be honest i think with my dad as long as hes deemed capable of saying no I dont want to go to a home they wont make him and said care home will have a hell of a time keeping him there he will be ripping the doors off .!
I did try to go home but like i said it wasnt safe for him he was disoriented and distressed I couldn’t bring myself to keep going home at night and leaving him theres no point id be up all night and then over in a taxi when he wanders out and I haven’t heard from the ss since so i dont know what to do or whats happening after the carer leaves i think the only thing i can do is advertise privately for live in carer 2 days /night a week .sorry to jump on your thread annielou
Worth a try? xx