Currently my mum is in a nursing home for respite after having fall at home, she is due to be discharged tomorrow but I am increasingly worried how I will cope. She has carers come in on a morning for meds and personal care, she wont get up for them, so they issue meds and leave. They are back early evenings for meds only. I work part time but do 2 12 hour shifts plus every 2nd sat and feel exhausted, on those days her sister rings to try and get her up and makes her meals for her. On days off I am at my mums but she just wont get up, some days I am still trying at 5pm. When she is up, she does very little talking and recently is refusing food she used to like, it's so hard knowing what to feed her with. Since fall, i think dementia has moved on a step, eg bathroom next door to her room in nursing home, yet she cant find it, nor find her way back to her room. Has no recollection of ever having carers in. At home she lives alone and diagnosed 2017 but we noticed symptoms many years early but doctors kept saying it was depression. Any tips with dealing with this would be appreciated.