Good Morning, Thank you for your reply. Sounds like you have a lot to deal with too.
He’s had nightly muscle spasms for many years, which shakes his entire body and the bed and snores very loudly and makes choking noises. So, not much sleep, although he sleeps well. He’s always cold and wears indoor sheepskin gloves for most of the year, despite the heating being on day and night! It’s like a sauna and he’s still asking for the heating to be put on! I have osteoarthritis, carpal tunnel syndrome and cervical spondylosis in my neck and spine, which is due to (in my opinion) many years of personal care and pushing him in his wheelchair. I have been told he is ageing me and should have been in a home years ago, but how do you put someone in one, in their fifties? I’ve tried taking him to activity sessions, but he doesn’t want to go again. Feel like life is passing us by...