Dads assessments are back in! I find no comfort in being right, just sadness that the awfulness of having to start a process in which to get clarification of what seemed to me an obvious situation.
I’m grieving daily - but have accepted that I can’t fight the system anymore. I am going to be the daughter that Dad needs.
the process can run now, & I no matter what I do it’s not going to change the inevitable outcome.
I need to be the loving daughter my Dads mostly in bed now as the reclining chair is on a 12 week list! the care home didn’t feel dad needed a profiling bed so I can’t see them coming up with any solutions in that respect .
I can’t battle continually anymore- without support from medical professionals involved routinely in Dads care I’m going around in circles.
accepting that fact tears you apart!
The system is set up so Carers are forced to accept what help is offered. Access to the care government bodies say should be available have become tainted by profit margins & the viability of providing a service.
so I’m going to be a daughter now, a role I know I can fullfill completely.