I used to tell my husband this and he found staying at home alone preferable to going out when he didn`t want to.
I continued leaving him for a maximum of two hours to go to Yoga and a support group.
The time came when he opened the door for me as soon as I got to the gate. [ we have a very long drive ]
This made me realise he was waiting at the window all the time looking for me, even though I`d left a note telling him where I was and when I`d be home.
I didn`t think it fair to cause him even more anxiety than he had so arranged an agency carer to be with him while I was out.
Do you think this would be possible for you
@Francy. I know you said your husband won`t have anyone to sit with him but I told my husband someone was coming to help me clean the house to help my arthritis. I also asked him to keep an eye on them while I was out.