My dad has vascular dementia and Alzheimer’s. 2 days ago he attacked my mum bruising her badly and he is now in hospital. He knocked her to the floor. At the time their grandchildren were asleep in the house.
Police and ambulance were called.
When my dad first became aggressive my sister and I broached what would happen if dad became physical. We agreed he would go into cate.
Dad has deteriorated badly over last 6 months and asks if my sister and I are home yet (w are both in our mid 40s and married)
Mum is talking about dad coming home.
I want her to understand how scared we are and on the night it happened she said she couldn’t have him back whilst the grandchildren were in the house.
I cannot risk losing my mum. I am already losing dad.
How can I help her to protect herself?
Police and ambulance were called.
When my dad first became aggressive my sister and I broached what would happen if dad became physical. We agreed he would go into cate.
Dad has deteriorated badly over last 6 months and asks if my sister and I are home yet (w are both in our mid 40s and married)
Mum is talking about dad coming home.
I want her to understand how scared we are and on the night it happened she said she couldn’t have him back whilst the grandchildren were in the house.
I cannot risk losing my mum. I am already losing dad.
How can I help her to protect herself?