Our problem is our (82 yo) mum is clueless regarding finance, because dad (now with dementia and in a nursing home) always sorted it. I advised when dad was first diagnosed with Dementia that they should get a power of attorney. I’ve just found out that this was never done. Mum never keeps receipts, and bank statements just get thrown in the bin. I live an hour’s drive away so have had nothing to do with their day-to-day finances. Bills just get stuffed under a seat cushion to deal with “another day”.
In order for the authorities to now do financial assessments and look at their benefits, they’ve said a Deputyship needs to be organized and mum is the obvious choice. I have 2 brothers who live nearby but similarly have nothing to do with their finances. All of us would be reluctant to take this role on: them becauSe they work full time and me because I’m not able to get to see them as regularly as I would like so I would be a hindrance if they needed anything sorting.
Is mum the most appropriate deputy in these circumstances? Many thanks
In order for the authorities to now do financial assessments and look at their benefits, they’ve said a Deputyship needs to be organized and mum is the obvious choice. I have 2 brothers who live nearby but similarly have nothing to do with their finances. All of us would be reluctant to take this role on: them becauSe they work full time and me because I’m not able to get to see them as regularly as I would like so I would be a hindrance if they needed anything sorting.
Is mum the most appropriate deputy in these circumstances? Many thanks