The home was broken into at some point today, things stolen, window smashed at the back of the house, mess made everywhere. Things can be replaced, but just the idea that people broke in. Not sure how we will tell dad.
Oh god this is horrible. This kind of uncertainty was the very worst for me with Dad. It's only gone away since I moved him into a CH. I don't know who you can complain to but if you have the energy you must as it's outrageous.Today the hospital discharged dad without telling anyone, he was just left in the discharge lounge without a phone or without keys. While we have sorted LPA and etc, it seems rather terrible form to leave a vulnerable diabetic man with poor short term memory problems in the discharge lounge alone without notifying next of kin. We only found out as the District Nurse contacted my sister to find out if he could be visited later on this evening. Occupational health had said he would need a hospital bed, which wouldn't be delivered until Monday.
My dad has no diagnosis of dementia, he is still awaiting a memory clinic appointment. Sometimes it feels like only me and my sister see it. But he does have all the signs and growing, but it's generally frustrating as in the short times medical professionals see him, he's hunky dory.sending you and your dad best wishes @AztecCamera87
I hope the staff take the time to realise your dad's been in hospital so often and needs a thorough check up - is there a dementia matron in the hospital, maybe ask to speak with them?
Definitely. Mums TV watching habits had to be severely censored. She also thought that TV characters were actually talking to her.s it normal for people who may be struggling with dementia, to bring up things that happened on the television as things happening in the house?