Hello all. I have posted here in the past when I was looking after my mother who had Parkinson's and Lewy Body Dementia. Sadly, she died in June 2017.
Since then I have been trying, more or less unsuccessfully, to get a meeting with the hospital to discuss the events leading up to my mother's death. Would you believe that I eventually received a letter in response to my many queries a couple of weeks ago. So I have a meeting booked next week, 524 days after my initial request.
However, my mother died in hospital without me by her side which was distressing enough but then in the letter they sent me they also mention that an urgent decision had to be made regarding resuscitation and they decided she would not be resuscitated but would continue to be given intravenous fluids. Unfortunately no member of the family was present at the time and this discussion needed to take place as soon as possible.
I was at the hospital for a lot of the time that day and no one contacted me about her condition. In fact I was unable to contact a doctor to speak to about her condition as there were none around.
She appeared to be dying but no one mentioned that to me. So I was informed of her death the next morning when I was at home. Is the LPA not worth the money and the paper it is written on? Because I thought that the hospital were meant to involve me in my mother's worsening condition and her treatment (she did not have a DNR order). I thought the LPA is a legal document and they should have made an attempt to meet and discuss with me but obviously not. Have other people experienced this lack of interest with an LPA?
Since then I have been trying, more or less unsuccessfully, to get a meeting with the hospital to discuss the events leading up to my mother's death. Would you believe that I eventually received a letter in response to my many queries a couple of weeks ago. So I have a meeting booked next week, 524 days after my initial request.
However, my mother died in hospital without me by her side which was distressing enough but then in the letter they sent me they also mention that an urgent decision had to be made regarding resuscitation and they decided she would not be resuscitated but would continue to be given intravenous fluids. Unfortunately no member of the family was present at the time and this discussion needed to take place as soon as possible.
I was at the hospital for a lot of the time that day and no one contacted me about her condition. In fact I was unable to contact a doctor to speak to about her condition as there were none around.
She appeared to be dying but no one mentioned that to me. So I was informed of her death the next morning when I was at home. Is the LPA not worth the money and the paper it is written on? Because I thought that the hospital were meant to involve me in my mother's worsening condition and her treatment (she did not have a DNR order). I thought the LPA is a legal document and they should have made an attempt to meet and discuss with me but obviously not. Have other people experienced this lack of interest with an LPA?