I look after my mother in her home,I'm mums carer along with carers that come in to do her pad changes,I haven't got a health LPA and I'm wondering if that makes it easier for the LA to stick my mother in a home at some time,she has always wanted to stay at home but hasn't got those wishes recorded anywhere pre dementia after all who would think to do that,and it would be normal for somebody to want to stay at home anyway,who would wish to go in a home by their own choice.
She is well looked after and is bed bound in a hospital bed so doesn't wander and wont be able to break any bones.
A cynical side of me wonders if the LA might prefer her home to be sold to fund her care and me not being able to speak up as I don't have health LPA,I know for a fact after numerous conversations with our carers that it's common for a lot of people living alone to be kept at home in beds,I supsect a large amount of those are in LA housing so the LA haven't anything to benefit from those people.
She is well looked after and is bed bound in a hospital bed so doesn't wander and wont be able to break any bones.
A cynical side of me wonders if the LA might prefer her home to be sold to fund her care and me not being able to speak up as I don't have health LPA,I know for a fact after numerous conversations with our carers that it's common for a lot of people living alone to be kept at home in beds,I supsect a large amount of those are in LA housing so the LA haven't anything to benefit from those people.