I’m writing this because I’m trying to understand.
I wish I wasn’t writing this and probably tomorrow I will regret it.
But, I think something has fundamentally changed. I don’t know how or why, but he is very aggressive, non compliant (that word is for you @Starbright ), very selfish.... different, meaner, spiteful.
All started first thing. Moved on. I was pottering waiting for Sainsbury’s delivery. He got aggressive that he has nothing to do, wouldn’t come with me to change his pad. Kept refusing. Said he wanted to die. Started pushing me around. I twisted my hip. I shouted that did he think it was any better for me. But he really doesn’t care about me now. So tough.
Does dementia suddenly change like this?
He keeps threatening to hit me, apart from the push today he has got very close but held back from actual contact.
He’s angry that in his words I locked him away while I had my surgery.
How do I cope with this?
What do I do? What can I do?
Will tomorrow be better?
I hope so, B xx
I wish I wasn’t writing this and probably tomorrow I will regret it.
But, I think something has fundamentally changed. I don’t know how or why, but he is very aggressive, non compliant (that word is for you @Starbright ), very selfish.... different, meaner, spiteful.
All started first thing. Moved on. I was pottering waiting for Sainsbury’s delivery. He got aggressive that he has nothing to do, wouldn’t come with me to change his pad. Kept refusing. Said he wanted to die. Started pushing me around. I twisted my hip. I shouted that did he think it was any better for me. But he really doesn’t care about me now. So tough.
Does dementia suddenly change like this?
He keeps threatening to hit me, apart from the push today he has got very close but held back from actual contact.
He’s angry that in his words I locked him away while I had my surgery.
How do I cope with this?
What do I do? What can I do?
Will tomorrow be better?
I hope so, B xx