I have obviously led a sheltered life because I did not realise there was a rude version of Jingle Bells which involves someone losing their willie on the M1.
On a more serious note, I have been holding back from telling you that I thought my blue eyed boy was drifting away from me. But today, oh my goodness today. Keith leaned close to me and said
Are you all right?
I said I am, sweetheart, especially when I am here with you.
He said, Good, thank you.
Back in the day in the times of the dreadful carer at home struggle, he once said to me, Why am I doing this to you? I wouldn't do this to you. I was on all fours cleaning up a desperately horrible mess and in tears so could say nothing at the time. Later, I explained it was that his head was a bit damaged following bumping it so many times. (Being tall, Keith has spent a lifetime bumping his head in doorways).
He stretched out his hand and held mine. But oh his legs are so thin now.
Just with him, I did a film themes session, Great Escape, James Bond, Dr Zhivago, and then the snowman. Keith was able to hum most of them, especially the snowman. I so wish I could explain to him that in the latest version, the snowman has a snowwoman because this used to worry Keith so much, that he was all alone.
Before I left, I said, how lovely to be with you precious boy and Keith replied, It's what we do isn't it.
Yes, my blue eyed boy, it's what we do. Who needs Christmas?
Thanks guys, thank you. with love, Geraldinexxxxx