Hello again
I wrote a few days ago about my bullying brother and him registering POA with all the banks without consulting me the carer and other POA
I tried to explain about his personality problems and lack of empathy and his fixed, obsessive ideas whereby he sees details and no context.I was told by one member not to go on about my mother's capacity and not to discuss my siblings personality issues
However it is because they are, the way they are, that they are acting, the way they are ( one brother and one sister)
My brother who lives 300 miles away and went years without seeing mum is now popping in for an hour once every 6 months has decided with my sister, again who does not care for my mum and pops I every 3 weeks for an hour , that my mum s health has deteriorated and that we all should now consider putting her in a home and he asked-
What should we do with the dog ?
He has only had POA for 3 months and he promised mum as did I that this would not happen
My mum has a large estate and he has an eye on his inheritance I believe
I don't care about any inheritance I want mum to be happy
I am my mums carer for the past 18 months , I live with mum and I work full time
I make sure mum has breakfast is all OK for the carer who visits at about 1100 and the again at 1300 for an hour each time and then I am home by 5
I make sure she has lovely food, is safe and warm
She also has a cleaner and two gardeners , so she has lots of help
I also make sure mum has lots of lovely experiences , taking her out several times a week in the evening and daily in the summer , to walk or go to the garden centre or friends etc
At the weekends I take her out to all sorts of lovely places
She has lots of interaction with other people, she is happy and we'll cared for and has all her medical needs met
My brother and sister do nothing and now they have decided that mum should be in a home and the dog needs rehoming
I wrote a few days ago about my bullying brother and him registering POA with all the banks without consulting me the carer and other POA
I tried to explain about his personality problems and lack of empathy and his fixed, obsessive ideas whereby he sees details and no context.I was told by one member not to go on about my mother's capacity and not to discuss my siblings personality issues
However it is because they are, the way they are, that they are acting, the way they are ( one brother and one sister)
My brother who lives 300 miles away and went years without seeing mum is now popping in for an hour once every 6 months has decided with my sister, again who does not care for my mum and pops I every 3 weeks for an hour , that my mum s health has deteriorated and that we all should now consider putting her in a home and he asked-
What should we do with the dog ?
He has only had POA for 3 months and he promised mum as did I that this would not happen
My mum has a large estate and he has an eye on his inheritance I believe
I don't care about any inheritance I want mum to be happy
I am my mums carer for the past 18 months , I live with mum and I work full time
I make sure mum has breakfast is all OK for the carer who visits at about 1100 and the again at 1300 for an hour each time and then I am home by 5
I make sure she has lovely food, is safe and warm
She also has a cleaner and two gardeners , so she has lots of help
I also make sure mum has lots of lovely experiences , taking her out several times a week in the evening and daily in the summer , to walk or go to the garden centre or friends etc
At the weekends I take her out to all sorts of lovely places
She has lots of interaction with other people, she is happy and we'll cared for and has all her medical needs met
My brother and sister do nothing and now they have decided that mum should be in a home and the dog needs rehoming
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