My mum has dementia sometimes she sleeps heavily and can be aggressive in women but on a few occasions she has been in a wet bed. Twice myself and a visitor managed to cgange. She does not have capacity to make decisions always. Today her heom smelt and her bed was wet carers were aware. How long is acceptable to leave her??? Also the home has had no water in her room for over 10 days tgeydata say they take up bowls of water. But her feet are still as dirty with same marks as last week . The shower isn't working and my mum is afraid if theotoh bath generally her personal care is poor. What are the standards??? Thk you