I will, love.dad..but, thank you.
I think my experience with my parents has taken its toll on me. I'm scared to death of getting dementia myself, and then putting my adult children through hell. I love them so much I can't bear the thought of doing this to them. So I'm hoping that I don't live beyond 70, ha ha.
Having said that, I know I gave my 3 a good and happy childhood, which is more than my parents did for me. I left home at 16 because of the cruelty and neglect. Mine are now 43, 41 and 38. But the thought of making their lives as scary and as miserable as my last 13 years doesn't bear thinking about for me..
I feel the same @Angela57 I have told my son that as soon as I start showing any signs, he is to give me the nod and I am out of here. 75 will do me as long as I am in good health. I am nearly 62 now so that gives me time to do the things I still want to do.