hi all
I’m hoping for some urgent advice please. My dad has had 4 admissions to hospital in the last 4 months this last admission has lasted so far, 6 weeks.
Each admission has been due to a chest infection and confused state. My dad has vascular dementia which was diagnosed some 18 months ago. While he has been in hospital he has become quite confused, scared even, he has been aggressive hitting out at staff. He has been held down by security guards, his arms have been covered in bruises.
He had been given haloperidol to help with the agitation but it seems to have made things worse. I would like to point out that he has never been aggressive at home. His infection is clearing but he will be on long term antibiotics.
My mum is 75 and missing dad very much, they have been married 55 years and never been apart, he rings her from hospitalvevery night at 7 pm to tell her it’s breaking his heart not being with her and he just wants to go home. When I have rangcthe hospital to see how dad is they tell me he’s doing well and helping the staff and that he is a lovely man. He has a Dols on him at present and social services are saying he won’t be allowed to go home without 24 hr care provided for by the family, they say both Mam and Dad are vulnerable but mum is insistent on him coming home, social services have said if we retry to take him home they will go to the court if protection. My mum and I have been appointed by Dad to be his power of attorneys and we are just awaiting finalisations from the OPG. Would this mean officially and acting on dads best interest we could take him home? Dad has capacity, he has been playing cards and dominoes with the staff, he has been pleasant and helpful. Social services are adamant he needs to be in an EMI but the family insist he isn’t ready for that yet. We are desperate and time is ofcthe essence any advice would be much appreciated, thanks in advance x
I’m hoping for some urgent advice please. My dad has had 4 admissions to hospital in the last 4 months this last admission has lasted so far, 6 weeks.
Each admission has been due to a chest infection and confused state. My dad has vascular dementia which was diagnosed some 18 months ago. While he has been in hospital he has become quite confused, scared even, he has been aggressive hitting out at staff. He has been held down by security guards, his arms have been covered in bruises.
He had been given haloperidol to help with the agitation but it seems to have made things worse. I would like to point out that he has never been aggressive at home. His infection is clearing but he will be on long term antibiotics.
My mum is 75 and missing dad very much, they have been married 55 years and never been apart, he rings her from hospitalvevery night at 7 pm to tell her it’s breaking his heart not being with her and he just wants to go home. When I have rangcthe hospital to see how dad is they tell me he’s doing well and helping the staff and that he is a lovely man. He has a Dols on him at present and social services are saying he won’t be allowed to go home without 24 hr care provided for by the family, they say both Mam and Dad are vulnerable but mum is insistent on him coming home, social services have said if we retry to take him home they will go to the court if protection. My mum and I have been appointed by Dad to be his power of attorneys and we are just awaiting finalisations from the OPG. Would this mean officially and acting on dads best interest we could take him home? Dad has capacity, he has been playing cards and dominoes with the staff, he has been pleasant and helpful. Social services are adamant he needs to be in an EMI but the family insist he isn’t ready for that yet. We are desperate and time is ofcthe essence any advice would be much appreciated, thanks in advance x